Tailored Support after the loss of your baby during both pregnancy and first year of life and support for subsequent pregnancies.
In the UK 4 babies in every 1000 are still born and in 2018 it was reported that 250,000 pregnancies ended in miscarriage. …and yet the loss of a baby or infant is still very much a taboo subject. Whilst some couples and individuals receive wonderful care and support many are left wondering where to go and how to get through. Additionally, when parents decide to try again there is so much emotion carried through with this decision and the subsequent pregnancy . 15 years go my first son was still born following diagnosis of Edwards Syndrome – it changed the course of my life forever… 7 years on I went on to have my next son and whilst it was a ‘normal’ pregnancy, and he was born a healthy 6lb 10 the pregnancy itself was extremely stressful. Both experiences saw me receive some wonderful care but also some lack of support and some thoughtless actions (often well meant but misjudged). Recently I felt it was time to try and bridge the gap of support in some way – so I added to my therapist training by working with The Infant Loss Foundation who train professionals across a range of roles including midwives, Dr’s and counsellors about some of the specific support that can help parents at these times. In these sessions you can find : Infant Loss: (miscarriage onwards)
- A safe space to simply be and be heard.
- A place to explore your grief and emotions.
- Looking at ways of remembering your child.
- A place to talk about the impact on your relationships with self , your partner and others.
- Deciding to try again – discussing your emotions and concerns.
- Support through the pregnancy to handle anxieties and stress which may occur
“When I met Ali I was broken. So many events had led me to a place that was filled with fear and anxiety. Ali helped me to move on from that place and start to build a new future.”
“Ali helped me to see what was important, to value myself, to find a way to bring back me after being a mum and a wife for so many years. She brought back my confidence!”
“Ali saved my life! - So many things I had put in a box. Ali let me see they did not define me. Now I cry less and laugh a lot more!”